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Late-Night Musing of the Single Romance Writer

God, Carrie Bradshaw and Co. made the whole dating thing look deceptively easy. So did Rory Gilmore for that matter. Pretty, intellectually stimulating guys just dropped in her lap. Real life is sooo different, especially for introverted bookworms. Recently, I started using a dating app and it’s been…educational. Some of the guys I’ve “matched” with have been perfectly nice and there are a few that I’m interested in. But the others? Let’s just say they’re reinforcing why I’m single.

Since I live in Texas, finding a guy who is not obsessed with guns, hunting, and whose views on relationships and acquisition of knowledge don’t clash with mine is challenging. There are also an odd number of couples on this app, trying to find a third to add to their relationship, which hey, more power to them. There are also an inordinate number of guys these days with epic beards that do absolutely nothing for me (I’m a scruff or clean-shaven girl).

Wading through that lot is fairly easy; however, it’s the others that have been a true revelation. A lot of these guys are on this app, knowing that women reach out first. They may even respond to a messages. Except that they are masters of the monosyllable. They don’t understand the basics of conversations–such as, you know, asking questions back.

Or, they seem really nice and charming until the conversation suddenly takes a sideways turn into the land of propositioning and creepy expectations. Seriously, have none of these guys watched a crime show in the last two decades? I know the sign doesn’t say NASA, but come on. I’m smart enough not to be alone with a guy I barely know in a private place, and I hope other women on these apps would be too.

If I were in any other business, the last month on this app would probably have me scurrying back into my hobbit hole, content to be the blue-stocking spinster that populates all too many books in literature.

But I’m a romance writer. Contrary to what the rest of the world might think, romance novels don’t give women unrealistic expectations of relationships. The expectations we have are fairly realistic. To quote the brilliant Tessa Dare “Women are constantly told it’s a fantasy to expect fidelity, respect, and orgasms in this life and to seek the same in our reading. It’s not.” But more importantly, romance novels teach us to hope and to not settle. They teach us not to be that girl who has a boyfriend for the sake of the cute Instagram pictures and to have a date to the trendy weddings. They teach us that independence and self-reliance are a virtue, because when you find the right man, he’ll stand by your side and be your partner, not your Lord and Master.

So I’ll continue my adventures in dating apps, wiser but undaunted. Maybe I’ll meet my hero there or maybe I’ll have some sort of meet-cute in the most ordinary of places. Either the way, the hope I’ve learned from reading romance novels will see me through.

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The Boredom of an English Lit Nerd

So, I keep trying to remember just how many Shakespeare plays I’ve read and/or seen over the years. So, I broke down and made the darn list. The crossed out I’ve either read, seen the movie adaptations of or seen live. The ones I’ve seen live (or performed in as is the case with All’s Well) are in bold.

Total seen/read: 24 out of 38.

Total seen live: 13

1. The Tempest 
2. The Two Gentlemen of Verona
3. The Merry Wives of Windsor
4. Measure for Measure
5. The Comedy of Errors
6. Much Ado About Nothing
7. Love’s Labour’s Lost
8. A Midsummer Night’s Dream
9. The Merchant of Venice 
10. As You Like It
11. The Taming of the Shrew
12. All’s Well That Ends Well 
13. Twelfth Night
14. The Winter’s Tale
15. Pericles, Prince of Tyre
16. The Two Noble Kinsmen
17. King John
18. Richard II
19. Henry IV, Part 1
20. Henry IV, Part 2
21. Henry V
22. Henry VI, Part 1
23. Henry VI, Part 2
24. Henry VI, Part 3
25. Richard III
26. Henry VIII
27. Troilus and Cressida 
28. Coriolanus
29. Titus Andronicus
30. Romeo and Juliet  (for being my least favorite of his plays, I’ve also seen it live the most –going on 3 times now and seen every movie adaptation at least once)
31. Timon of Athens 
32. Julius Caesar
33. Macbeth
34. Hamlet
35. King Lear
36. Othello
37. Antony and Cleopatra
38. Cymbeline

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I’m feeling ranty today and this is the most innocuous of the sources of this feeling.


Dear Men of the world (book critics in particular),

Please stop mansplaining and hating on romance novels until you’ve taken the time to actually READ ONE. I’m not talking about the Harlequin serials from 1985. I’m talking a bestseller from intelligent, well-spoken, talented women like Nora Roberts, Tiffany Reisz, Kristan Higgins, Courtney Milan, Stephanie Laurens or any number of authors I could name. Do you hear us hating on male-centric genres like westerns or action/adventure? NO. I’ve even taken the time to read some of them and enjoy them. There’s dredge in those genres too, but do you hear us pontificating about how they’re ruining society or a reflection on maleness? NO. So back off.

Do I have my own opinions of Fifty Shades? Yes. Those of you who know me will know I’m thoroughly unimpressed with the quality of the book, but I understand and somewhat respect what its popularity has done for the genre I’ve adored since I was 14. But this hating on romance by men who want to feel superior is getting REALLY OLD.

The ever-wise Sarah Wendell can explain the source of this rant must better than I here.  The most important part of this blog entry is when she quotes a Washington Post response to the ridiculous article that sparked this issue.

Here is a proposal Giraldi does not seem to have considered: Romance novels are attractive not just because they are a gratifying escape but also because they sometimes feel like a respite from from the significant hostility that a lot of literature shows women.

Men who try to mansplain romance are the reason we need it to exist. Men who write about the acquisition of a publishing company as if it were a TMZ sex scandal are the reason we need it. If you want to see the good romance has done for women, read some of my past entries. I wrote an entire thesis paper on it.

Okay. I’m done. For now.


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TV Suggestions

So, as I take a slight brain break between phases of my work-in-progress, I’ve been watching brand new TV shows and asking myself why I’ve stuck with some slightly less new shows through their freshmen seasons. Okay, so not a brain break, really, but what can I say? I’m a writer. We never stop thinking about stories in some form or fashion.

First up, the brand new shows:

Almost Human – This is one of Fox’s new(er) dramas. It started back in November. I went into the show with a lot of mixed emotions, especially since it displaced Bones, a perennial favorite of mine. But given that Karl Urban was in it, my inner-romance writer couldn’t say no (What, he’s smokin’).

Maybe it was the timing with the show starting just as I started to read J.D. Robb’s “In Death” series, but I’m really starting to dig this futuristic cop drama. The premise is a little overdone–scarred but heroic cop teams up with new partner that messes with his world order–, but the interesting take on cyborgs and the impact the evolution of technology will have on society as a whole make up for the dated set up. Minka Kelly is a little annoying as the love interest for the hero, but I’m hopeful that her character will have the chance to demonstrate some backbone.

Intelligence – CBS’s new drama that started just this week (so it’s not hard to catch up on) is surprisingly intriguing. Again, the set up is a little overdone– off-beat, but devastatingly handsome hero in the midst of a search for his missing wife is paired with attractive, hardcore, no-nonsense beauty. I know, I know, there are only 13 original storylines in the world or something like that, but a little variety would be nice.

Luckily, the meat around the frame is different enough to stick. Josh Holloway’s character has had a computer chip implanted his head that lets him access any sort of electronic data. Meghan Ory is a Secret Service Agent who kicks some serious ass and has some shadows about her that I think will give things a little variety. I’m looking to see if she can carry a show as the lead. I loved her as Ruby in Once Upon A Time (and part of me wants to see her back on that show), but I think with an episode or two she can develop into a leading lady with potential.

Killer Women – As a writer, it makes me really happy to see ABC looking towards scripted mini-series a la the Brits rather than bringing in silly reality shows to fill time when their full length tv series are on hiatus. This show about one of the only female Texas Rangers looks like it will be fun if you like crime dramas led by strong, sassy females. The unique settings are a nice change of pace.

My hope for this is that they take the time to grow the main character, Molly Parker, to have some dimensions. Right now, she fits into the mold forged by Kiera Sedgewick and Glenn Close in their crime dramas. They showed glimmers of making her a little different at the end of the episode (who would have thought to have her play a trumpet?), but I’m waiting to see what they can do in the remaining seven episodes.

Now for the less new-new shows (no, it’s not like New New York):

Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D. – I’ve gotten a lot of flack for sticking with this show, but my love of comic book worlds and anything created by Joss Whedon and his cohorts. It is getting a slow start, but unlike other comic book shows like Arrow and Smallville, SHIELD hasn’t had the same canonical source material to help drive the plot and pull fans in. Now that the second half of the season has started, I see them starting to take steps towards the potential that started to pick through in earlier episodes. The character stereotypes are beginning to be tested in true Whendon-esque fashion. While they’re not Buffy, Xander, and Willow, the main team has a dynamic that keeps me coming back and Clark Gregg’s quiet charm as Phil Coulson thoroughly justifies the hype that led up to the show.

Once Upon A Time in Wonderland  – In all honesty, I don’t know why I’ve stuck with this show. I think the writer in me is intrigued by the twisting of well-known stories and characters into a cohesive storyline that continues to surprise me. The same goes for its parent show. Alice being a badass is kind of awesome, and I really like the Knave of Hearts. None of the characters are one dimensional (except maybe Cyrus, but I think he’ll grow now that he’s not in a cage). Everyone, even the characters you think of as “all bad” like Jafar have different sides of shadow and light that make the story compelling. It’s a testament to character and innovation trumping the formulaic every time.

Downton Abbey – Wait, you say, Downton Abbey isn’t a new show. Well, no, not in the sense of seasons aired. BUT, as devastating as last season was, it essentially gave Julian Fellowes a chance to reboot the show. We’re comfortable with the characters, but it’s like starting a new book in a familiar saga. The balance has changed.

Branson is now the young male lead and having to take on a lot of the roles that come with being the son of the house, while still being in the limbo-land of him being the former chauffeur. Mary is starting over with the knowledge that the role she prepared herself for all her life is hers and yet not. Both are dealing with being single parents. Robert, Cora, Violet, and Isobel are all searching to fill the voids left by lost loved ones, while also being thrust forward into the Roaring Twenties by newcomer Rose. Even Edith is somewhat likable this year. The only part of the season premiere I didn’t like was the new ladies’ maid. My response: really, Julian Fellowes? Really?

What about you? What shows are you loving this year? I’m sure I’ve missed some that I’m keeping up with but there are far too many.

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I Choose “I Do” – Contemporary Romance

Contemporary Romance

The next major shift in romance novels can’t be really traced or pinpointed to one author or time. After the bodice ripper, organic changes began to seep into the rhetoric of the romance novel. But by the mid-nineties, it is evident that heroines have fully embraced the sexuality their predecessors had so many problems with. Wendell and Tan explain that, “They have sex before marriage with somebody who isn’t the hero. They aren’t presented as pure, pristine vessels of womanhood to make their bows before a monarch (well, most of them are not, anyway) and they may have even had (Gasp!) enjoyable nonhero-bestowed orgasms” (Wendell/Tan 884). In other words, romance heroines have full caught up with their non-fictional counterparts. The heroines can now represent modern women rather than idealized archetypes that have to live within a set of limiting guidelines and roles.

But even this change took a little time in reaching its fruition. The romance novel of the 1990s still has the more forceful elements of the bodice rippers and the Gothics that came before it. Phillips says in her 1992 essay “The Romance and the Empowerment of Women” that “The heroine isn’t as big as [the hero] is; she isn’t as strong, as old, as worldly; many times she isn’t as well educated. Yet despite all these limitations she confronts him—not with physical strength but with intelligence and courage” (Phillips Romance 56). Traces of this can be seen in the bodice rippers, but Phillips really shows this with the main characters in Nobody’s Baby But Mine, published in 1997. Dr. Jane Darlington is an up-and-coming physicist, who through a course of overly-logical decisions on her part, becomes entangled with Chicago Stars quarterback Cal Bonner. Right off we see a new dichotomy begin to form between these two characters: brains vs. brawn, rather than weak vs. strong. Both characters are what could be characterized as “affective individuals” before even meeting each other. Their relationship is solely about the possible formation of a companionate marriage. Neither needs the other.

Jane in particular is an interesting character. Even during this more progressive decade, it was still rare to see a heroine work in the hard sciences. Rather than asking readers to suspend disbelief and forget the world in which they lived, where women in the hard sciences were few and far between and often not given the same respect as men, Phillips makes a point of bringing this up in one of the early scenes of the book between Jane and her boss at a prestigious lab. Her boss asks her to do extra work claiming, “You’re quite young, Jane, and not as well established as the others.” She was also a woman, and he was a sexist jerk. Years of self-discipline prevented her from saying any of this out loud, especially since she would end up hurting herself more than him” (Phillips 58-9). In this short little scene, Phillips captures a reality for many women in the workplace. They could work along side men and do jobs just as well if not better than them, but they still could not necessarily confront their sexist behavior. Jane, though in full possession of her own agency and affective individualism, still has to play by the rules of society.

Jane’s relationship with Cal is highly confrontational from the beginning. Like Wulfgar and Mr. Darcy, he is a leader, a man of action who expects to be obeyed without question. As Wendell and Tan explain,

romance novel heroes are still, by and large, a testosterone-laden bunch, with tree-trunk thighs and a near-magical ability to vanquish villains with nothing more than the power of their utterly huge, utterly massive, utterly intimidating…guns, when a veritable army of people have failed. The heroes just aren’t quite as shouty and grabby and punishy as they used to be (Wendell/Tan 375).

In many of the descriptions of Cal, we can see a descendant of Wulfgar, menacing and somewhat brutal. Neither of them are as refined as Darcy, although in Cal’s case it is more for attraction purposes than the need to leave room for the force that is necessary in Wulfgar. The template for the hero is the same, but he has become more aware of the emotional element to his character, which is seen by the fact that his point of view is now used to an almost equal degree with that of the heroine.

Jane takes after Elizabeth a bit more than Aislinn does and is not afraid to fight back against Cal’s chauvinistic behavior, she is the alpha heroine who has reached her full potential. Phillips does, however, draw a parallel between Jane and women like Aislinn. Jane and Cal spend the off-season in his hometown, but because Cal views their marriage as temporary, he refuses to let her interact with his friends and family;

She barely saw Cal, something that should have eased her mind, but didn’t, since she realized she had virtually imprisoned her. She had no car, he didn’t offer to lend her his, and the only people she saw were deliverymen and the two Korean cleaning women. Like a feudal lord with a moated castle, he had deliberately cut her off from the town and its people…Unlike a medieval noblewoman, she could put an end to her imprisonment anytime she wanted.  A phone call to the taxi company would have done the job (Phillips 119).

Phillips shows that modern women romance heroines are very much in possession of their own agency. Jane makes her own choices, despite how much Cal would like to control her. Modern life has put them on equal footing, but as a writer, it is difficult to determine how the relationship should develop without the physical, economic, or intellectual inequality that previously separated heroes and heroines. The answer comes from the emotional elements of the story. Over the years between Woodiwiss and Phillips, the male point of view became a standard part of the romance novel and gradually moved deeper to explore his psyche as well as those of the heroines. Emotional conflicts became the meat and potatoes of romance novels, rather than just the side dish.

Having someone to fight back against him mellows Cal, although it takes him a while to realize that he loves Jane. But more than that, Cal helps Jane learn to be comfortable in her own skin. Her intelligence has driven away everyone else, but Cal readily accepts and challenges that part of Jane;

Maybe she wasn’t anxious to avoid this battle because it would be with Cal. All her life she’d been so polite, so dignified, so careful not to offend. But Cal was impatient with politeness, unimpressed by dignity, and impervious to offense. She didn’t have to watch what she said or mind her manners. She could simply be herself (Phillips 241).

The ability to be oneself is a strong theme in most romance novels. The struggle to fit within the expectations of society is source of trouble for both men and women. The goal in modern romances is to find that person with whom you are both challenged by and comfortable with so that you can achieve a new level of personal success. With Jane by his side, Cal realizes what he wants to do once his football career is over. We’re told at the end of the novel that Jane has become more successful than ever since meeting Cal.

We see the early evidence of the “perfect partnership” in Nobody’s Baby, but Nora Roberts’ most recent romance, Happy Ever After, shows the culmination of the romance Jane Austen saw for Elizabeth and Darcy.  Parker Brown is the modern Lizzie Bennett – a confident, successful woman who runs her own wedding planning business with her three best friends. An alpha heroine fully in charge of her own life, Parker doesn’t need a man to find her place within society. She doesn’t need romance because as a wedding planner, she facilitates everyone else’s “happily-ever-after.” On the surface, Malcolm Kavanaugh is an atypical Darcy with his greasy jeans and his motorcycle, but, underneath, the honor, integrity, and fierce loyalty has altered little in two hundred years. Malcolm fully embodies every aspect of the alpha hero that Wendell and Tan describe and does so in a way that challenges and compliments Parker’s alpha heroine attributes.

The tension between Parker and Malcolm comes from their similar personalities and the different ways they approach things. Regis claims that in Roberts’ work “courtship is a matter of wills and wit” (Regis 204), just as it was with Austen. Both want to understand how to fix things, how to make things better, but where Malcolm goes with the flow and observes, Parker organizes and manages until everything meets her satisfaction. Difference is the key word between these two, as it was with Lizzie and Darcy. As Parker’s long-time housekeeper tells Malcolm, “’I will say she’s all too used to the men who go after her being predictable. You wouldn’t be. The girl wants love, and with it the rest she grew up with. That kind of partnership, respect, friendship. She’ll never settle for less, and shouldn’t” (Roberts 144). The wise Mrs. Grady sums up what every modern heroine wants and what every modern hero eventually has to admit he wants. Some, like Lizzie, want this because it is the opposite of what their parents had, but others are like Parker and want to achieve what the previous generation worked hard to establish. As an individual, Parker has every material thing she needs. The only thing that can enhance her life any further is finding a partner to enter into a companionate marriage with, but it is not essential to her happiness.

Parker’s main conflict with Malcolm comes not from any physical threat on his part; there is never any language of force such as we see in Woodiwiss or Phillips. The main conflict for them comes from the same problem that occurred between Lizzie and Darcy – a lack of communication. Unlike Lizzie, Parker is able to vocalize this problem; “she’d come to understand, was well on her way to accepting, that Malcolm was the partner she wanted for those promises, for that lifetime. Still, she mused, partnership required that sharing, a depth of trust, a knowing” (Roberts 247). Malcolm still exerts the alpha male tendency to hide his feelings and his past hurts while requiring her to tell him everything. But Parker, as an alpha heroine, knows better than to settle for that. She’s worth more and she makes sure that Malcolm knows that in no uncertain terms. Modern romance heroines have a grasp of their worth that is subtly expressed by their predecessors, but never fully addressed. They can now say that what they want and not back down until they get it.

Happy Ever After is the fourth book in a series. The first three books revolve around Parker’s friends and business partners finding their perfect romantic partners. In this book, we see these three couples on the verge of marriage and Roberts shows what exactly a modern marriage should be, what should come after the “happily-ever-after” ending we see in Austen. At the end of the book, Malcolm is searching for Parker to finally declare his love for her.  Along the way, his friends give him the words to explain the type of relationship he and Parker need to have. Jack, the hero of Bed of Roses, notes, “Who knew? The big party? That’ll be a kick, but it’s the rest, the rest of my life I’m waiting for. Emma’s… She’s Emma. That’s all she needs to be” (Roberts 322). These women spend their lives around weddings and romance, but it is the after that matters. “Happy Ever After” doesn’t mean the story ends. It means it is just beginning for the modern romance heroes and heroines. Roberts shows that the companionate marriage isn’t about alteration or change. It is about acceptance, affection, and the ability to work in tandem with your partner. This is what Austen gives us glimpses of in the final chapter of Pride and Prejudice but can’t fully articulate within the literary conventions of the time, which dictated that a romance end at marriage.

In 21st century contemporary romances, the characters are able to admit that it is not just romance that is important. It is the building of a relationship and establishment of a life based on love and companionship that matter. Parker’s brother, Del, reflects to Malcolm, “It makes it more solid, more real, more important. I’ve been to countless weddings, but I don’t think I really got that until Laurel, until I wanted to make it more solid and real and important” (Roberts 322). These men have the words that Darcy and Wulfgar lacked, the words that Cal had trouble understanding, and they are more than willing to take that step. The alpha male of the 21st century still has demons to battle internally, but instead of struggling on his own or putting them aside for the heroine, he works through them with her and their relationship is stronger for it.

To exert agency means to choose a specific action. Each hero and heroine face moments of choice over the course of the romance novel and ultimately they choose to be together rather than separate. They choose to enter into a partnership that allows them to become better, more fulfilled people than they would have been separately. Many times, they would be just fine on their own, but their lives would be a little duller, a little less challenging.

Jane Austen was a woman before her time when she created Elizabeth and Darcy and the couples that followed them. The companionate marriage was still in its infancy, made possible because of affective individualism, but it was difficult to articulate within the society in which it was trying to exist. But the desire for the full promise of this type of marriage to exist allowed for romance novels to continue to flourish. Women had to struggle through the legal and social hurdles of the 200 years between Pride and Prejudice and Happy Ever After before Austen’s vision could be fully realized. The romance novel not only provided a platform for these hurdles to be discussed, but the safe world of fiction provided them a place to show modern women how to achieve all of the potential of a companionate marriage. Romance novels are often chosen for “escapist” reading material, but they provide a valuable realm for women to learn about their own value and how to exert their agency within society.


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I Choose “I Do” – Georgette Heyer, Kathleen Woodiwiss, and “Bodice Rippers”

Georgette Heyer, Kathleen Woodiwiss, and “Bodice Rippers”

The establishment of companionate matches as part of the romance novel doesn’t really undergo much of a change from the style set up by Austen until over 100 years later. Georgette Heyer begins to write romance novels in the 1920s, a time when women were finally gaining legal control over themselves in and out of marriage. The previous model for heroines who still conformed to society while subtly subverting it would no longer serve its purpose. According to Regis,

the expression of the societal disorder is largely within the heroine and hero themselves and the twentieth century hero makes the largest new contribution of this kind of disorder and to its being made orderly by the betrothal at the end of the work. Ordering society is now an issue of taming or healing the hero (Regis 114).

The shift from the match promoting a “new” idea such as affective individualism to one exploring different ways that affective individualism and agency allow a woman to bring order from chaos comes from Heyer’s writing. Everything during this time period becomes a bit “more;” heroes start off more akin to Wickham than Darcy and heroines are much more assertive versions of Elizabeth. Despite these differences, they still make the same choice as their romance novel predecessors: marriage. Heyer is writing during a transitional phase for women as far as the choice to assert their own affective individualism versus social expectations. By writing more modern females into stories similar to Austen texts, she provides them with reminders of their own ability and agency. They can take on these strong males and make a life by their sides in a companionate marriage rather than behind them.

Unfortunately, women of the 1970s were still suffering from many of the same ambiguities of societal place that the women Heyer started writing for were. A new component was also added to their ability to exert their free will: their sexuality. Sexuality is a part of society that has always been there, but was never openly discussed prior to the advent of Second Wave Feminism. Women were not supposed to enjoy sex. According to Wendell and Tan, “no other fiction genre focuses sexuality in general and female sexuality in particular in the context of happy romantic relationships” (Wendell/Tan 864). Because romance is generally a genre for women by women, it was positioned to take on this newly public female sexuality in a positive way.

So how did romance writers of the 1970s make this new idea palatable to their readers while remaining socially acceptable and relevant? Continuing in the style of Austen and Heyer, they write from a female perspective, but they use the plot devices of old Gothic novels like those written by Anne Radcliffe to create an air of sexual danger that fulfills itself where those did not. According to Wendell and Tan, “The eventual taming of a sexually dangerous and aggressive hero thus allowed women a safe space to explore—and invert—the power relationships in a rape. Romance-novel rape ultimately placed women in control” (Wendell/Tan 2346). The language of force and danger of the novel allowed for women to not only come to terms with the idea that enjoying sex might be acceptable, but to also see the extremities of their own situations from a historical lens and find a way to take control of their own bodies by embracing their sexuality.

These highly problematic novels have become known as “bodice rippers,” mostly because of the sexually implicit covers favored in the marketing minds of the 1970s that have only recently been put aside. While there are obvious pitfalls within the rhetoric of this movement, particularly surrounding rape, these novels did serve a purpose within the overall progression of the role of agency and affective individualism in the evolution of the romance novel. Before exploring the positive aspects of the “bodice rippers” it is important to address the problematic elements and try and interpret them within the context in which they were written.

Kathleen Woodiwiss, the de facto “founder” of this movement makes very deliberate choices in her depiction and expression of the threat to the female body. In her second novel, The Wolf and the Dove, set during the Norman conquering of England in 1066, the language surrounding the early interactions between the heroine, Aislinn, the daughter of a Saxon nobleman, and Wulfgar, the Norman knight who takes possession of her father’s land, is steeped in a rhetoric of force and female objectification. Woodiwiss sets this book in the Middle Ages to allow for more danger and patriarchal absolutism to show a contrast in Aislinn’s situation by the end of the book. In one of their early encounters, before Wulfgar has literally forced himself upon Aislinn, Woodiwiss inserts this exchange, “’I had no inkling your strength was so lacking that you must chain me while you do your worst to me.’ ‘It saves energy,’ he laughed. ‘And I can see I’ll need all the assist I can get to tame the shrew’” (Woodiwiss 62). Now, he doesn’t go so far as to actually chain her during sex, but he does keep her chained every night prior to that. Not only does he try to threaten her with his mere physical size and presence, Woodiwiss has him take steps to include the trappings of slavery and complete subjugation. But even as he takes away all outward signs of her agency, Aislinn, expressing the characteristics of affective individualism, does her best to hold her ground and find a way out of her situation.

Wulfgar is very determined to “claim” Aislinn. Woodiwiss steps back past Jane Austen to a time when women had no legal rights in order to allow an extreme alpha hero to exist. What little we see of his point of view in the first half of the novel is all about making her “his.” This is very common language for romance novels, even modern ones, but there is an added intensity to this mission in the bodice rippers, probably due to the underrepresentation of the hero’s perspective. Directly after their first (forced) sexual encounter, Woodiwiss makes this claiming have a lingering effect on the heroine, even on the sensory level; “Wulfgar’s sweat still clung to her and she could smell his scent upon her” (Woodiwiss 127). In the mentality of Aislinn and the reader, even as she physical escapes from Wulfgar, it is only illusory at best. At this point in the novel, he possesses the upper hand because he has possessed her body, but she does her best to scrub away this evidence, still fighting for her own individuality. Aislinn is struggling to gain some sense of affective individualism but she doesn’t know how to do so yet.

This is where feminist readings of bodice rippers usually stop. They only see this language of force and possession of the female body and don’t look further into the narrative. At one point early in their sexual relationship, Wulfgar tells Aislinn, “you resist me not, but yourself, and I would wager the time will come when I will but touch you and you will beg my favors” (Woodiwiss 139). Looking at this statement on first reading, it appears to be another sexist, arrogant statement. However, there is another layer to that statement that implies that Aislinn will come to enjoy her sexuality, to choose to have sex with the man she cares about and like it, which seems to be the whole point of the sexual content in bodice rippers. Yes, this enjoyment results from a relationship based on force, but the history of women is riddled with force. In order to fully understand the significance of bodice rippers within their society, it is important to look at the end result – women embracing their right to not settle for sex they don’t enjoy – rather than the means taken to reach it.

Gradually, Aislinn comes to love Wulfgar, even though he hasn’t realized his own love for her yet. Once she sees him as another human rather than a conqueror, she allows herself to enjoy sex with him. This shift in her views on sex comes after he shows her sympathy upon the unnecessary death of her horse. By showing compassion for his feelings, he’s beginning to show the emotional element Wendell and Tan identify as necessary for a true alpha hero. Directly after they make love, Aislinn reflects, “Her failure to curb her own passion when he gave no hint of love or regard for her upset her greatly. Her body was more in his will than her own” (Woodiwiss 275). What she doesn’t realize is that by opening up to him on his field of battle, she sets herself up to win the war. Within the arc of the romance novel, sexual compatibility often comes before the declaration of love. Love is built on the intimacy created by enjoying sex and deepening the relationship – another side effect of affective individualism. Is this an ideal depiction? No. But an important part of Aislinn or any of these early heroines accepting the fact that it is ok to enjoy sex is that they gain more autonomy and agency within the story.

Another common trope of the bodice rippers is that the woman almost always ends up pregnant at some point in the novel. This could be viewed as the heteronormative need to prove fertility and the viability of the marriage and there is probably some truth to that. However, Woodiwiss seems to use it as a vehicle in which the hero comes to realize just how strong the heroine actually is. No matter how much she fights with him or does to help their community, he usually does not realize her inner strength until he’s seen her survive childbirth. We can see this in Wulfgar’s reflections after Aislinn gives birth to their son, “The cost of her struggle to bring the child forth had etched its passing on the gentle features, yet there shone behind them a clam strength that made pride rise in him. She was indeed a wife to stand beside a man and meet whatever life could offer” (Woodiwiss 438). Seeing the strength she is capable of, Wulfgar’s entire perspective begins to shift, paving the way for his romantic declaration and the companionate marriage to become fully established. In recognizing Aislinn’s strength, her “merit” as Wollstonecraft would say, as different from his own but still present, Wulfgar recognizes her as a fellow affective individual and accepts her beside him as such, an alpha recognizing another alpha. Once that acceptance comes, he can readily admit his feelings for her and the end of the novel leaves the reader at the beginning of their partnership. According to Regis, “The new couple do not change the structure of society or retire from it…but they create within it an oasis of calm morality, free from its shame and danger” (Regis 141). Yes, all around Wulfgar and Aislinn there are still unequal marriages and forced relationships, but the happy ending comes because they have formed their own partnership within society and their lives are better for it.

The writers of bodice rippers did create somewhat murky waters for their descendants to slog through with the language of rape and force used, but Woodiwiss and her contemporaries created a huge shift within the genre. Because of them, “Romance fiction not only says women want that knowledge [of sex] and have a right to it, it often gives it to them explicitly on the page, telling them it’s not wrong to want a full sexual life and showing them how to get one” (Wendell/Tan 2537). Prior to this point in literary history, books still held the strong Victorian mores about sex and gender roles. The “bodice rippers” allowed sex to enter into literary discourse in a way that spoke to women and showed them that sex should be proudly enjoyed and not hidden from. Aislinn and her counterparts are alpha heroines because they find a way to “tame” their alpha heroes and show them that compromising for love is not a weakness, but a strength. These heroines reach their full strength when they learn that enjoying sex as much as men do is not a crime. By the mid-1980s when the bodice ripper faded quietly into the archives, women readers had come to understand and accept sex as a right. In public life, they were now working beside men in the same jobs, so why shouldn’t they enjoy the same things men did?